I’m a dad and, subsequently, get to experience the perks of fatherhood. One day a year, I am patted on the back for selflessly donating a gamete in the name of species propagation. On Sunday, I was rewarded handsomely (in scallops and beer) for passing my torch of bad traits and other detriments to a future generation of human!
I thought the novelty of Dad Day would have worn off after my initiation into the club last year, but I must admit that this time has more magnitude than the previous. In 2011, I spent the day contemplating how I was going to change Worm’s life. Today, I reflect on how much Worm has changed me.
Having a kid is like a walk in the park. Raising a kid is like a marathon. Every single day.
Since this is my second Father’s Day, I’ll impart some of the things I’ve learned since last year:
- Keeping up with my little one requires the stamina of the Energizer bunny. For comparison, I ran 6 miles in the mud on Saturday and at the end I realized it was nowhere close to the effort of a couple hours chasing the Worm.
- It’s possible for humans to survive on whipped cream and ranch dressing. Worm could eat a tub of each. Blech!
- One job of a dad is that of a human garbage disposal. Whatever Worm doesn’t eat, I usually eat. Worm’s table scraps are not quite filet mignon, especially the partially chewed pieces. Yes, I’m gagging as I write this. But, it’s sadly true. (I hate wasting food.)
- There are some things more disgusting than wearing my baby’s body fluids. I’m not sure what they are, but repeating this phrase gets me through those rough days when I need more than just a wet wipe.
- Stubbornness runs in families. I was hoping it would skip a generation and we would be spared. Instead, Worm’s got two servings of it.
Let me leave you with a relevant quote for the Day of the Dad:
“My father didn’t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.” — Clarence Budington Kelland
To my own dad – Thanks! You taught me a lot just by being there for me. You’re the best!
I hope everyone had a Happy Father’s Day!